HOW TO BE COME A BETTER LISTENER

I grew up believing I was a good Listener. Although I have become a better listener than I was ten years ago. I have to admit I’m still only adequate Listener. As I grow up I realized that effective Listening is more than simply avoiding my annoying cousin, another thing I discover about the effective Listen is the bad habit of interrupting others while they are speaking or finishing their sentences . The entire thought of listening to someone and waiting patiently to find the content of of someone talk is something I cant not afford to understand fully or be contented with. For example , one day, when I was in a cafe having lunch, eavesdropping on the conversations around me. It seemed to me that, most of us have problem of how to communicate and listen effectively. Our attention span is becoming less and our distraction is increasing with technology. Due to that we are are having hard time listening to one another;

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Since then I began to reflect and read more books about effective communication of how to slow down responses and become a better Listener, believe or not it made me to become more peaceful person as time goes by . I also notices that it takes an enormous amount of energy and is very stressful to be sitting in front of someone who I have no interesting in listen to, but I still do it out of respect for a fellow Human being.

In some ways, the way we fail to listen is a symbolic of the way we live. we often treat communication as if it were a race. It’s almost like our goal is to have no time gaps between the conclusion of the sentence of of the person we are speaking with and the beginning of our own. So let us try to change our Listen Habit so that other people can feel comfortable opening to us about anything that can be beneficial. By practicing good Listening habit people will feel safe in slowing down their own response because they wont feel in competition with you for airtime.

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Reflecting on Reflection

Indeed a man  should reflect deeply over God’ s creation.

Even within a man physically and physiologically perfection is indeed a sign of Reflection of God constitutes without any blue print but rather from Divine Wisdom and Knowledge( Allah) All Wise, All knower of the seen and unseen .

A reflection should prompt every human being to show his / her genuine Gratitude, deep respect and real love to the One and Only Creator, ( Allah) His majesty, magnificent and Gracious Lord, who bless and create every human being in such a fashionable forms, perfect, upright and miraculous way of seeing light and knowing beauty from His inspiration.

Remember the True One ( God) and His action of management over all His creations. Reflect on His Mastership and Greatness.

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So behold let a man considering his origin and what has become of him, for sure anyone who thinks and reflect develop his/ her foresight and Vision from the Creator of Heaven and Earth 🌎.

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Time Travels

Everyone wants more time, but not everybody know how valuable time is until death reaches them. Time is given to all human being but only few understand how to use time in order to live a productive life styles. Time is a gift of God to Humanity, to keep us ( HUMAN BEING ) in check and balance of reality.

People are born into time, Live in Limbo, and end up dead before they can get more time. Some people beg, steal, commit sins, sell their bodies and souls for more time, that is the curious part of the reality, if such people ever understand the purpose of Time Travel.

God would not prescribe for us ( human beings) something which we could not do because God promised us that HE will not burden any soul with more than it can bear. It might seem as though finding the balance between worship and worldly pleasure is impossible, but we know in our Heart of Hearts that it is Possible if we are willing to use our Time Travel on this planet wisely.

Time has a Great meaning than just counting days and nights, weeks and months, and the rotation of solar and moon calendar for our celebration. Time Travel comes with Divine purpose, so is our journey of life, so do not take time for granted, because time wait for no One .

Take your time to enjoy day by day, spent your time wisely, and take advantage of moments to see love ones, to care and share Love and Respect with compassion, but no matter what happen, do not be afraid of time unless you are not preparing for it. It is a matter of fact that, at any given moment, there is Always something to do, something to love and something to look forward into and it all has to do with time and energy.

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Make Services an Integral Part of Your Life

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To be become a kinder, more loving individual requires action. yet ironically, there nothing specific you have to do, no prescription to follow rather, most genuine acts of  kindness and generosity seem natural, they seem from a type of thinking where services and giving have integrated into the person thought process.

  • Several teachers and philosophers that I have learn from have suggested that I begin my day by asking myself the questions , how can I be of services? I have found this to be useful in reminding me of the multitude of ways that I can be helpful to others . when I take the time to ask this questions, I find answers popping up all day long.

If one of our goal is to be of help to others , we will find the most appropriate ways to do things for others, our chance to be of services are endless, sometimes the best way that we can be of services is to offer our home to a friend even strangers in need. other time, it’s to give our seat to the elderly person on te train, help a youngster across the monkey bar, speak to a group of people, write a letter or book help out in our daughters school, write a check to charity, or pick up litter on the road, the key, I believe, is to remember that being of services isn’t one time efforts. it’s not doing something nice for someone and then wondering they aren’t being nice too, or doing this for us. Instead, a life of services is a lifelong process, a way of thinking about life. Ask yourself, does the trash need to be taking out? if so, go ahead and take it out even if it not your turn. Is someone you know being difficult? maybe they need a hug or someone to listen to them. Are you  aware of any charity organization that need more help, could you possibly give a little extra this month..

I learn that the best way to be of services is often very simple, it’s those little, quite , often unnoticed act of kindness that we choose on a daily basis being supportive of a new endeavor by our spouse or simply taking the time and energy to listen. I know that I have a long way to go towards my goal of becoming a more selfless person. However , I also know that as I have attempted to integrate services into my life , I have feel better and better about the way I choose to live.

There is an ancient saying,” Giving in its own reward”, it’s really true, when you give, you also receive. In fact what you received is different proportional to what you give.   As you give more freely of yourself in your own ways, you will experience more feelings of peace than you ever thought possible everyone win .

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The Hunted life Part 2

In the Game of Life, Everyone is just trying to Survive

Everyday, eight billion people walk around, without a care in the world. They do not know, what is await for them after long rides home. When you are walking in the street, when you are alone in the shower, and even when we are asleep. We live every seconds, minutes and hours, everyday trying to cheat death, as even death is an option for those who chose it. We refuse to contemplate and Reflect on the INEVITABLE and the CERTAINTY OF DEATH.

When you are walking in the street, when you are alone in the shower, and even when we are asleep. we live everyday trying to cheat death, “The Offenders” play Checkers, they live a Life of, day to day, jumping over one another, trying to reach the top of the ladder of success. while, we are too busy chase the materialism and catching up with an entertainments .

The reality of the situation is, wherever you are, whatever you are doing, death is only around the corner and it is a matter of Divine decree. Death will creep upon you like the flu, Death is waiting on you….. death will see you soon. Sorry people as much as we all want to talk about exciting things like fashion shows, games and celebrates club, DEATH is also part of stage of life process that every Human being will go thru it just like the way everyone was born.. Peace, Love, Hope and Gratitude Always from the GratitudeQueen.

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THE HUNTED


THE HUNTED

All throughout our life, we follow rules and often fall in line, as we try to walk the straight edge of a razorblade. All without falling off.

We are all consumers in our lives, we trying to follow meaningless trend in slang, fashion, technology, gossip, and even food.

for some people, trying to keep up with the latest trends, is time consuming, and never wreaking. It can break the largest bank, and even cause a psychiatrist, to re-analyze their Lives.

Remember, when you shop for so called sales and deals. Ask even when you are Shopping for groceries, ask yourself, are you the Hunter, or the prey.

LABELS

Labels are everywhere, and they are on everything , they are hang over us, on our shoes ,stitched to our clothing, and even fashionable enough, to the tattooed to our skin. But why are they there?

When told to read behind, or in between them, you will find nothing, Nothing but emptiness. And if you let yourself be defined by stereotypical, or even racial label, then what are you?

We are all creation of One God, we should not allow possession and Labels defined our humanity as a whole.