Develop Your Own Compassion.

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Nothing helps us build our perceptiveness more than developing Compassion for others.

Compassion is a sympathetic feeling. It is the willingness to put ourselves in Someone else’s shoes. It is also the ability to shift our focus off ourselves and to imagine what it feels like to be in someone else’s predicament, and simultaneously to feel like the other person.  We need to start using our human abilities to understand and recognize other people’s problem; their pain and frustration are every bit as real as our own, sometimes even far worse. In recognition of this fact and trying to offer some assistance, it opens our heart and enhances our sense of GRATITUDE.

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Compassion is something you can develop with practice.  It involves two things: Intentions and Actions.

Intention simply means you remember to open your heart to do the right things which benefit you and others; Intention allows you to expand the what and who matters from yourself to other people. While Action on the other hand simply means “what you can do about it.”  You might donate a little money or time on a regular basis to a cause near your heart, or perhaps you could offer a beautiful smile and genuine compliment to the people you meet on the street, subway or on a bus.  It’s not so important what you do, just take the time and do something for others.

 ” WE CAN DO GREAT THINGS ON THIS EARTH, AS MUCH AS WE CAN  DO SMALL THINGS WITH GREAT LOVE”

Compassion develops our sense of Gratitude by taking our attention off the little things that most of us have learned to take too seriously.  When we take time often to reflect on the MIRACLE OF LIFE— It is a  Miracle that we are even able to read anything from the internet site, books, microscopes and so many other things our eyes perform for us; it’s a gift of  sight from God to all Human beings. The gift of sight is a gift of love, likewise all the rest of our body.  All of these help us to be grateful  and complain less  about the things that we think of as the ” big stuff”. Because when we let out our anger, fear, frustration, disappointment, and so forth, we’d then come to realize that they are really just  “small stuff” which could definitely prevent us from being compassionate towards others of we don’t tend to shift off them.

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THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS TO GET OUT OF RELATIONSHIP

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In the words of Audrey Hepburn, “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.”

As we are all aware that the truest definition of a relationship actually depends on who you ask, and not based on your own perception alone. And that’s the major reason I’ve compiled a list of some important things to get out of any relationship you may find yourself in, be it intimate or otherwise. 

💥 LOVE: one should look out for everlasting love; no subtraction, but additional love with joy and happiness. This means caring for one another with acceptance and sacrifices for better or for worse until death do you apart.

💥 COMMUNICATION: Being able to communicate (effectively) with each other without fear of being judged, accused or misquoted.

💥 FUN: having fun and being able to laugh together without hurting any of the parties involved, with understanding and interests.

💥CARING: Genuine care for each other. Passion for life; not just today when things are rosy, but for the unknown tomorrow as well.

💥 FRIENDSHIP: It is usually interesting to have a close and a caring friend to talk to, to embrace, to rely or count on with confidence. 12f6f8489c824d4-a-nw-p.jpg💥 EMPATHY: Having a person who understands you better with feelings and emotional connections is obviously a pain reliever on its own.

💥 TRUST: Having someone to empty your mind to without hurting you in return is actually underrated. We all need that particular person we can trust, talk to, believe in; to reason with, either by soul, heart, wealth or lifetime secret.

💥 FREEDOM: Giving each other room with privacy and with an open mind, freedom to think freely and with freedom of expression is required.

💥 ROMANCE: This is obviously meant to be performed with that particular person you share an intimate relationship with. Here’s the person  you can have fun and romance with for the best memories of life. So, spend your ROMANCE LIFE with Mr.Right in order to avoid stories that touch.

FEW THINGS THAT MONEY CAN NOT BUY IN A RELATIONSHIP.

  1. Air
  2. Morality; Values and Trust
  3. Loyalty
  4. Respect
  5. Justice
  6. Fairness
  7. Wisdom
  8. Dignity
  9. True Love
  10. Common Sense
  11. Intelligence
  12. Wisdom

As we go back to our daily activities, let’s not also forget that Love cures people — both the ones who gave it and the ones who receive it.

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Youthfuness vs Old Age.

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Youthful period is not an entire time of life, but rather  a state of mind. Today I see youths whose perspectives are about muscle building, ripening hot chicks off for their desire, wearing the latest clothes of brand names, chasing the new gadgets as a means of upgrading life, wearing red lipstick with heavy make-ups, demanding a higher paycheck with less work and intelligence and so forth. And as I sit down and reflect, these questions rushed to my mind; why are the youth today not taking time to think clearly? Because thinking is the source of will-power; why are the youth not taking time to read? Because reading is the foundation of wisdom; why are they not reflecting on the quality of imagination? For I call this period, The freshness of the deep spring of life. Youth age is one of the stages of life that comes with a temperament, predominates of courage over intimidation, a redemption of a higher value of love over hate and racism,  a journey of adventures to discover designs, dreams and make use of your divine gift for a lifetime. Now, I call that a dream of reality! FB_IMG_1512096355111.jpg

As days and nights pass by, days to weeks, weeks to months and months to years, people grow old only by deserting their ideas, years may wrinkle the skin, but never give up an interest of living and contributing to the human growth of development. Could the old age be a dream of reality, or of a dream of sleep? The old age is a period of deep thoughts of the past achievements (fulfilments and failures) a stage of realization of the price of success and understanding of true love in deeper senses, and experiences of hope over fear. It is a stage of supporting, preparing and guiding the next future generation; sense of fulfilment and contribution of the world and mostly a reflection of an entire life. Whatever your years of living, beneath every beating hearts, there is a question mark of the love of wonder of the main purpose of life and death as we all shall go through various phases.FB_IMG_1525968252180.jpg

We should never stop dreaming of the true meaning of reality and neither should we stop demanding of getting enough sleep for as long as the soul is interconnected within the body, so we say you are as young as your Faith, as old as your doubts, as young as your confident, but as old as your fear. The willingness to keep up with reality comes from the sincerity of the heart, the gratitude of the past and the present, the love of humanity, the ambition of improving and developing the sense of acceptance of life as it was lived is very important over the lifespan.

 

 

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THE LOVE LETTER.

The ‘Sweet’ Love Letter from  a Prince… 

I don’t know how many sweet words I have conjured into your mind, but tell me, do you remember them all?

Regardless of what you do everyday, do all the words remain intact within your mind?

Do they please you when you are unpleased?

And do they intrigue you when you are unreleased?

I don’t know how many words I have conspired within a given line, but tell me, have you learned them all?

Regardless of what is written, do all the words rhyme within the given line?

Do they inform you when you are uninformed, and do they excite you when you are forlorned?

I don’t know how many words I have said that I can say is mine, but tell me, have you heard them all?

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Needless of all that have been said, do all the words I bestow upon you signal some sort of sign?

Do they merry you when you are sad?

And do they lecture you when you feel bad?

I don’t know about others but I think we are just fine, but tell me, have you told them all?

Heedless of what we do, do you know that I am happy just because you are my Val?

Does it delight you that I belong to only you?

And does it move you that my love for you is forever true?

My mind drifts toward those thoughts of you a thousand times a day. 

You’re always there within my heart; you always know the way,

A constant craving deep inside of me. 

I need you…oh…so much

To look into those brooding eyes

To feel your gentle touch.

It’s the mere sound of your voice that makes my spirit soar.

It reaches far into my soul, down to the very core.

You haunt my dreams through every night

A vision so intense,

An apparition so sublime, no possible defense.

You are the love of my whole life; such joy I can’t recall. 

You are, and always will remain my everything…..My All.

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EAT, PRAY AND LOVE.

EXCEEPTS… 

I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in Love fast and without measuring the risks. I have a tendency not to only see the best in everyone, but assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential.

I have fallen in Love more times than I care to count with the highest of a man, rather than with the man himself, then I have hung on to the relationship for a long time, sometimes far too long, waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in Romance I have been a victim of my own optimism, and that’s the ugly truth about my reality. 

I married young and quick, from a place of love and hope, without a lot of discussion over what the realities of marriage would mean. Nobody actually advised me on my marriage.  I had been raised by my parents to be independent, self-proving and self- decisive. By the time I reached the age of twenty-four, it was assumed by everyone that I could make all my own choices autonomously, of course, the world was not always like this. If I’d been born during any century of the western patriarch, I would have been considered the property of my father until the  time he passed me over to my husband to become marital property. 

I would have had precious little say in the major matter of my own life. At one time in history, if a man had been my suitor, my father might have sat that man down with a long list of questions to establish whether it would be an approperity match. He would have wanted to know, How will you provide for my daughter? What is your reputation in this community? How is your Health? Where will you take her to live? What are your debt and your Assets? What is the strength of your character? My father would not have just given me away in marriage to anybody for the mere fact that  I was in love with a fellow.

But in the modern life, when I made the decision to marry, my modern father didn’t become involved at all. He would have no more interfered with that decision than he would have told me how to style my hair;  and what I  have come to realize is that, in a patriarchic system, I have to be extremely careful and protective of myself, then I need to become my own father and also to challenge myself to become my own husband.

  • This is a passage from one of the books that I am currently reading, which I found interesting…

Eat, Pray, and Love by Elizabeth 

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