Nothing helps us build our perceptive more than developing Compassion for others and Compassion is sympathetic feeling. Compassion is the willingness to put ourselves in Someone else’s shoes. Compassion is the ability to shift our focus off ourselves and to image what it feels like to be in someone else’s predicament, and simultaneously to feel the other person. We need to start using our human abilities to understand and recognize other people’s problem, their pain and frustration, are every bit as real as our own, sometimes far worse. In recognition of this fact and trying to offer some assistance, it opens our heart and enhances our sense of GRATITUDE.
Compassion is something you can develop with practice. It involves two things: Intentions and Actions. Intention simply means you remember to open your heart to do the right things which benefit you and others; Intention allows you to expand the what and who matters from yourself to other people. Action simply means “what you can do about it” You might donate a little money or time on a regular basis to cause near your heart or perhaps you could offer a beautiful smile and genuine compliment to the people you met on the street, subway or on a bus. It’s not so important what you do, just take the time and do something for others.
” WE CAN DO GREAT THINGS ON THIS EARTH, AS MUCH AS WE CAN DO SMALL THING WITH GREAT LOVE”
Compassion develops our sense of Gratitude by taking our attention off the little things that most of us have learned to take too seriously. When we take time, often to reflect on the MIRACLE OF LIFE–, It is a Miracle that we are even able to read anything from the internet site, books microscopes and so many other things our eyes does for us, is a gift of a sight from God to all Human beings., the gift of sight, is a gift of love and all the rest of our bodies movement capabilities, it can help us to be grateful and complain less about the things that we think of as ” BIG STUFF” when we let our anger, fear, frustration, disappointment, and so forth are really just ” SMALL STUFF” we turn into “big stuff” which could prevent us from being compassionate towards others.
Any time you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is to raise your standards. If you raise your standard but don’t really believe you can meet them, you ‘ve already sabotaged yourself, you won’t even try; you will be lacking that sense of certainty that allows you to reach the deepest capacity that within you.
Our beliefs are like the unquestioned command, telling us how things are, what is possible and what is impossible, what we can do and can not do. they shape every action, every thought and every feeling that we experience. Changing our belief system is the central key to make any real and lasting change in our life. we must develop a sense of certainty that we can and will meet the new standards before we actually do it.
We need to take full control of our belief system when we raise our standard for a new change. it is the quality of our beliefs system which will lead us to our inner resources and enable us to meet the new challenges that we have committed ourselves. Behind any great success is the empowerment of a belief system.
This picture illustrates the Positive and negative mindset when we are faced with new challenges to deal with.
Change your strategy: In order to keep your commitment, you need an effective strategy to achieve your result. One of the cores of a belief system is that if you set a higher standard, then you need to get yourself to believe it, then you can certainly figure out the best strategies that will work for your vision. As long as you are on the mission, then simply find a way to make it. Whatever you decide; You must take action. You can fine- tune to it, reshape and perhaps even make it better.
Get curious to know who you truly are by challenging yourself to reach your full potential.
what you need to know about Relationship and it Principles.
LOVE…one should look for everlasting Love…no subtraction but additional love with joy and happiness.. meaning caring for one another with acceptance and sacrifices for better for worse until death sperate you apart…
COMMUNICATION: Being able to communicate with each other without lies, fear, deception, but rather honesty and truthfulness
FUN:…having fun and being able to laugh together without sorrow or tear….but with understanding and interests
CARING:…Genuinely caring about each other….. passion for life ….not just today or at the good moments
FRIENDSHIP:…Having a close and a caring friend to talk to, to embrace with, to rely or count on..with confidence.
EMPATHY… Having a person who understands you better with feeling and emotional connection…pain reliever by smiling, hugging or kissing.
TRUST….Having someone You can trust.. to talk to. believe in. to reason with and sympathize…either by soul, heart, wealthy, or lifetime secret…
FREEDOM. Giving each other room with privacy and with an opening mind…freedom to think freely and with freedom of expression
ROMANCE….Having someone you can have fun and romance with….for the best memories of life….so spent your life Romance with Mr.Rights for ur good sake and best memory….by avoiding Mr Wrong, Faker and Pretender…
FEW INSIGHT THINGS THAT MONEY CAN NOT BUY IN RELATIONSHIP.
Youth period is not an entire time of life but rather it is a state of mind. Today I see youth whose perspective is about muscles building, ripening hot chicks off for their desire, wearing the latest cloth of brand names chasing the new technology products as a means of upgrading life, wearing red lipstick with heavy make-ups, demanding a higher paycheck with less work and intelligence and so forth. As I sit down and reflect, these questions rise to my mind, why are the youth today, not taking time to think clearly, because thinking is the source of will-power, why are the youth not taking time to read, because reading is the foundation of wisdom, why are they not reflecting on the quality of imagination. For I call this period as a freshness of the deep spring of life. Youth age is one of the stages of life that come with a temperamental, predominates of courage over intimidation, a redemption of a higher value of love over hate and racism, a journey of adventures to discovery, designs, dreams and make use of your Divine Gift of a lifetime. Now that is a dream of reality.
As days and nights go by, days to weeks, weeks to months and months to year people grow old only by deserting their ideas, years may wrinkle the skin but never give up an interest of living and contributing to the human growth of development. Could the old age be a dream of reality or of a dream of sleep? The old age is a period of deep thoughts of the past achievement (fulfilment and failure) a stage of realization of the price of success and understanding of true love in deeper senses and experiences of hope over fear. It is a stage of supporting, preparing and guiding the next future generation, sense of fulfilment and contribution of the world and mostly a Reflection of an Entire Life. Whatever your years of living, beneath every beating hearts, there is a questions mark of the love of wonder of the main purpose of life and death as we all shall go thru phases.
We should never stop dreaming of the true meaning of reality and neither should we stop demanding of getting sleeping for as long as the soul is interconnected within the body, so we say you are as young as your Faith, as old as your doubts, as young your confident but as old as your fear. The willingness to keep up with reality comes from the sincerity of the heart, the gratitude of the past and present, the love of humanity, the ambition of improving and developing of the sense of acceptance of life as it was lived is very important over the lifespan.
I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in Love fast and without measuring the risks. I have a tendency not to only see the best in everyone but assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. I have fallen in Love more times than I care to count with the highest of a man, rather than with the man himself, then I have hung on to the relationship for a long time, sometimes far too long, waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in Romance I have been a victim of my own optimistic, and that the ugly truth about my reality
I married young and quick, from a place of love and hope, without a lot of discussion over what the realities of marriage would mean. Nobody advised me on my marriage. I had been raised by my parent to be independent, self-proving and self- decided. By the time I reached the age of twenty-four, it was assumed by everyone that I could make all my own choices autonomously, of course, the world was not always like this. If I’d been born during any century of the western patriarch, I would ‘ve been considered the property of my father until which time he passed me over to my husband to become marital property. I would ‘ve had precious little say in the major matter of my own life. At one time in history, if a man had been my suitor, my father might have sat that man down with a long list of questions to established whether it would be an approperity match. He would have wanted to know, How will you provide for my daughter? what is your reputation in this community? How is your Health? where will you take her to live?, what are your debt and your Assets? what is the strength of your character? My father would not have just given me away in marriage to anybody for the mere fact that I was in Love with a fellow. But in the modern life, when I made the decision to marry, my modern father didn’t become involved at all. He would have no more interfered with that decision than he would have told me how to style my hair. I have come to realize is that, in a patriarchic system, I have to be extremely careful and protect of myself, then I need to become my own father and also to challenge myself to become my own husband. This is a passage from one of the Book that I am reading recently and I found it interesting.
Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth
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