Youthfuness vs Old Age.

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Youthful period is not an entire time of life, but rather  a state of mind. Today I see youths whose perspectives are about muscle building, ripening hot chicks off for their desire, wearing the latest clothes of brand names, chasing the new gadgets as a means of upgrading life, wearing red lipstick with heavy make-ups, demanding a higher paycheck with less work and intelligence and so forth. And as I sit down and reflect, these questions rushed to my mind; why are the youth today not taking time to think clearly? Because thinking is the source of will-power; why are the youth not taking time to read? Because reading is the foundation of wisdom; why are they not reflecting on the quality of imagination? For I call this period, The freshness of the deep spring of life. Youth age is one of the stages of life that comes with a temperament, predominates of courage over intimidation, a redemption of a higher value of love over hate and racism,  a journey of adventures to discover designs, dreams and make use of your divine gift for a lifetime. Now, I call that a dream of reality! FB_IMG_1512096355111.jpg

As days and nights pass by, days to weeks, weeks to months and months to years, people grow old only by deserting their ideas, years may wrinkle the skin, but never give up an interest of living and contributing to the human growth of development. Could the old age be a dream of reality, or of a dream of sleep? The old age is a period of deep thoughts of the past achievements (fulfilments and failures) a stage of realization of the price of success and understanding of true love in deeper senses, and experiences of hope over fear. It is a stage of supporting, preparing and guiding the next future generation; sense of fulfilment and contribution of the world and mostly a reflection of an entire life. Whatever your years of living, beneath every beating hearts, there is a question mark of the love of wonder of the main purpose of life and death as we all shall go through various phases.FB_IMG_1525968252180.jpg

We should never stop dreaming of the true meaning of reality and neither should we stop demanding of getting enough sleep for as long as the soul is interconnected within the body, so we say you are as young as your Faith, as old as your doubts, as young as your confident, but as old as your fear. The willingness to keep up with reality comes from the sincerity of the heart, the gratitude of the past and the present, the love of humanity, the ambition of improving and developing the sense of acceptance of life as it was lived is very important over the lifespan.

 

 

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THE LOVE LETTER.

The ‘Sweet’ Love Letter from  a Prince… 

I don’t know how many sweet words I have conjured into your mind, but tell me, do you remember them all?

Regardless of what you do everyday, do all the words remain intact within your mind?

Do they please you when you are unpleased?

And do they intrigue you when you are unreleased?

I don’t know how many words I have conspired within a given line, but tell me, have you learned them all?

Regardless of what is written, do all the words rhyme within the given line?

Do they inform you when you are uninformed, and do they excite you when you are forlorned?

I don’t know how many words I have said that I can say is mine, but tell me, have you heard them all?

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Needless of all that have been said, do all the words I bestow upon you signal some sort of sign?

Do they merry you when you are sad?

And do they lecture you when you feel bad?

I don’t know about others but I think we are just fine, but tell me, have you told them all?

Heedless of what we do, do you know that I am happy just because you are my Val?

Does it delight you that I belong to only you?

And does it move you that my love for you is forever true?

My mind drifts toward those thoughts of you a thousand times a day. 

You’re always there within my heart; you always know the way,

A constant craving deep inside of me. 

I need you…oh…so much

To look into those brooding eyes

To feel your gentle touch.

It’s the mere sound of your voice that makes my spirit soar.

It reaches far into my soul, down to the very core.

You haunt my dreams through every night

A vision so intense,

An apparition so sublime, no possible defense.

You are the love of my whole life; such joy I can’t recall. 

You are, and always will remain my everything…..My All.

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EAT, PRAY AND LOVE.

EXCEEPTS… 

I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in Love fast and without measuring the risks. I have a tendency not to only see the best in everyone, but assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential.

I have fallen in Love more times than I care to count with the highest of a man, rather than with the man himself, then I have hung on to the relationship for a long time, sometimes far too long, waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in Romance I have been a victim of my own optimism, and that’s the ugly truth about my reality. 

I married young and quick, from a place of love and hope, without a lot of discussion over what the realities of marriage would mean. Nobody actually advised me on my marriage.  I had been raised by my parents to be independent, self-proving and self- decisive. By the time I reached the age of twenty-four, it was assumed by everyone that I could make all my own choices autonomously, of course, the world was not always like this. If I’d been born during any century of the western patriarch, I would have been considered the property of my father until the  time he passed me over to my husband to become marital property. 

I would have had precious little say in the major matter of my own life. At one time in history, if a man had been my suitor, my father might have sat that man down with a long list of questions to establish whether it would be an approperity match. He would have wanted to know, How will you provide for my daughter? What is your reputation in this community? How is your Health? Where will you take her to live? What are your debt and your Assets? What is the strength of your character? My father would not have just given me away in marriage to anybody for the mere fact that  I was in love with a fellow.

But in the modern life, when I made the decision to marry, my modern father didn’t become involved at all. He would have no more interfered with that decision than he would have told me how to style my hair;  and what I  have come to realize is that, in a patriarchic system, I have to be extremely careful and protective of myself, then I need to become my own father and also to challenge myself to become my own husband.

  • This is a passage from one of the books that I am currently reading, which I found interesting…

Eat, Pray, and Love by Elizabeth 

Gilbert

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LIFE. AS WE SHOULD KNOW IT.

  • There will come a time in life  when one MUST stand alone
  • You must feel confident enough within yourself to  follow  your  dreams
  • You must be willing to make sacrifices, (right) choices, and or  decisions and promises.
  • You must be capable of changing  and rearranging your priorities;
  • So that the final goal can be achieved and accomplished
  • Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged
  • There is a time when one must take a few extra steps, chances to create, one’s OWN realities…
  • Be strong enough to at least, try to make your OWN life better.
  • Be confident enough that You don’t settle for compromise just to get appreciated.
  • Allow  YOUrself to grow, develop and  locate your true sense of purpose in this Life
  • Don’t stand in someone else’s shadow when it is your sunlight  to shine and lead the way
  • Your life ends the day  you stop dreaming.
  • Hopes end when you stop thinking.
  • Love ends the day you stop caring.
  • Friendship ends when you stop sharing.
  • Free your heart from hatred……….
  • Free your mind  from worries
  • Live simple, expect kess
  • Wake up with happiness and always smile with a warm heart.

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The Dreams

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A dream can be realized if you attempt to ‘archive’. You got to do your best and conserve, but when the nature calls, you got to observe, and now here I stand looking at my eye, they are small but they can see enormous things. There is a crack in everything, that’s  how the light gets in. Right now, you can be angry, afraid, sad, happy, peaceful, loving and content. These are all emotional state and your choice, so why allow negative experiences and situations maintain needless existence in your life.  You are in control to change or to wait until your situation changes, or to do something to change the situation. Why worry about the things that you can’t change? Leave it behind and move on.

When you look deep at what you consider bad then you will experience something good or discover something better to improve yourself. If you learn to have less expectations (from people) then you will experience less disappointments in life. To free your mind from stress and anxiety, don’t cry over the spilt milk of yesterday, because tomorrow is a gift and mystery; just focus on today, for it’s called the ‘Present’ — as you never can tell what it holds. Be contented with what God has blessed you with and watch God supply you more of all you need. Just remember in every exit, there is an entry to something new. Now that is the reality!

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